Sunday, December 12, 2021

Does Patan Have No Pride? By Stephen Eckherd

 

Does Patan Have No Pride?

By Stephen Eckherd

Taken from Himal, May/June 1991

I first came to Patan 25 years ago. At that time, a few whimsical white stucco versions of Singha Durbar and a few ugly government buildings of cement on the edges of Mangal Bazaar were the only exception to the red brick, wood and stone of old Patan. Sheep grazed on the Ashoka stupa at Pulchowk and temple bells were the loudest sound on a windy day. To enter a baha was to step back in time, to immerse yourself in living history.

Returning to Patan in January this year was a painful experience. The charm is gone. In most countries, the houses which I saw and photographed a quarter of a century ago would have been on a national register of historic preservation. In Patan, they have been cemented over , or razed to the ground. The wealthy have used their power, paid their bribes, pulled down old classics and thrown up new ones in concrete. Among the more unique travesties in the splitting of houses down the middle, one side recalling Patan's glorious past, the other side miming the worst of contemporary Sub-continental architecture.

What was unique about ancient Patan was that a common esthetic and love of craftsmanship crossed all social and economic boundaries. Small shrines, private homes and tiny shops were often as elegantly decorated as the king's palace and the major temples. Many were of superior craftsmanship.

Nor is any great, new shining city rising from the foundations of the old. From the dust of crushed red brick, dull gray cement buildings now cast long shadows over temples and bahas. Were richly carved "akhey jhyas" once stopped me in my tracks, today glass windows stare blankly out on the gullies. Were open passageways with painted parrots and frescoes of protective deities led into exquisite courtyards of stupas and shrines, today, metal grates and sliding steel doors block the way.

Do the citizens of Patan really care? Woodcarvers may complain that they have no work, but their own homes are of cement. An artist might feel regret at seeing a fresco done by his grandfather crumble with the demolished houses, but he fails to pass on the techniques to his own sons. The Newar curio dealers of Patan are themselves willing to sell copies of traditional Newa images which are mass-produced in India.

And what of the tourists, from whom Patan hopes to earn its future income? Tourists come for postcard views: a reconstructed Williamsburg or Warsaw, the meticulously restored town squares and cathedrals of Europe flanked by houses and shops of the same period. They expect to wander through blocks of old cities where even electric and telephone lines, and not just sewers, run underground. Patan, on the other hand, offers 17th century stupas hemmed in by electric transformer poles and concrete buildings.

If Patan had civic pride, its citizens would try to save their town from self-destruction. The would ban the sale of curios which are not authentic, and bring down billboard and banners that hide temples and shrines. They would restrict vehicular traffic in the narrow lanes and find a way to keep Patan dirt-free. They would also lobby to eliminate property taxes on houses of artistic or historic significance, and increase fees and penalties for new construction. It is within the power of the citizens of Patan, even now, to resuscitate their old town.

 

Visit to an ICU

Hospitals -- the place where most people do not like to visit - or wish they don't have to visit - until it is absolutely necessary, that is. And hospitals are absolutely necessary institutions in a civilized society. Within each hospital, health professionals including specialists, experts, consultants, medical officers, medical interns, technicians, pharmacist, pathologists, therapists, nurses, para-medics, admin staff, housekeeping are all working around the clock, with a well-defined operating guidelines and procedures. Different experts from their Departments and Units work in precise manner, shifts and schedules, so that all-round service is delivered to patients - with an objective of delivering health services for a better, healthy prolonged life. The activities inside a hospital function like a clock-work, so that it can give the desired services, without causing undue inconveniences to the patient and patient party. One small glitch in this clock-work, results in amble inconvenience, resulting in having to "wait in long ques" to - as grave as - loss of life. So no small error is small enough, or insignificant, in a hospital setting. The importance of management of hospital functioning, thus need not be over emphasized and Hospital Management degree is also conducted and is popular in colleges. 

A visitor who either as a patient or a patient party can instantly experience and observe how well the hospital management is functioning, as soon as they start to receive their intended services. The hospital's Emergency Department, is a mirror that reflects how well the hospital is managed. ERs are led by MDGPs doctors and are equipped with life saving medicines, equipment, technicians, interns, medical officers and nurses, with pathological labs. The ER's doctors seek specialized consultation from area specialists within the hospital, as and when required. The patient party generally will not know how the line of treatment is decided upon them. The entire ER Team and the hospital's physician's team's consolidated effort and swift action not only plays vital role during life and death situation, but also paints an ever lasting positive (or not too positive) image of the hospital's services onto a person who had undergone this situation. Every hospital has a fixed number of patient beds that can be served at a time. All equipment and personnel are arranged to cater an average expected flow of patients. However, there will be times when a sudden and instantaneous increase in patients will occur and managing such times require special skills and backup arrangements.

The in-patients that are required to be admitted to hospitals for further treatment are admitted in several departments within the hospital - where the department's doctors, when required, conduct consultations within doctors outside their departments to narrow down the diagnosis and provide suitable treatment. Within the hospital departments, the treating doctors hold a weekly "grand-rounds" where they discuss and present typical cases. The doctors treating in-patients require support from pathology, radiology, pharmacy and a constant team of nurses to treat and make patient's stay in hospital as short as possible. 

The patients visiting the Out-Patient Department, take consultations with doctors in different departments. Generally in a hospital, there are no limitations to the numbers of patients to be seen by the treating doctor, if the patients get their registration ticket taken, within a certain time. Patients may require to wait considerably to see a doctor and the doctor needs to spend their major portion of their time with the OPD patients, limiting their time for seeing the in-patients. The hospital management thus is required to come up with arrangements for the convenience to patients as well as not to overburden the treating doctor.


Recently the author was admitted to an Intensive Care Unit, as advised by the ER doctor, to monitor my cardiac activity. The ER doctor had consulted the Cardiologist who ordered the resident doctor for my admission to the ICU, after immediately required drugs were administered in the ER. The resident doctor, who is in their training phase for their MD, took care of requesting for an ICU bed, and getting consent from the Medicine Department's Consultant doctor. The ICU's Consultant doctor decides which patients are to remain in the ICU, and who can be transferred to Wards, or discharged, according to the patient's conditions. While awaiting for the ICU bed to be ready, the resident doctor arranges to send all the lab investigations, radiography etc. ordered by senior doctors. The resident doctor push-wheel, and carry the drug-infusion pump set, along with the patients, if there helpers are not available - which is also very common sight in hospitals.  

My admission to the ICU bed was not for the first time and I knew what was to expect therein. The ICU I was admitted to had 7 beds, and each bed was preoccupied prior to my admitting - probably for a few days. Two of the patients were in motionless conditions with a life-supporting ventilator equipment with many hoses, wire and pipes attached to them. All the patients were attached to the cardiac function monitors with its lead wires attached to the patient's chest, a blood-pressure monitoring arm cuff, and oxygen level monitoring finger clamp devices. The intermittent beeping sound from all the seven cardiac monitors filled the ICU room, and nurses were quickly attending to the patients. All together there were six nurses, and had day shifts or night shifts. The treating consultant doctor is accompanied by resident doctors, house officers, interns and nurses and make medical rounds twice daily, or upon need, and get update on the patient's progress and future line of treatment. The resident doctor fills in the cardex with the medicines ordered by the consultant, and any other significant issues. Unlike in foreign hospitals, where the medical records are filled electronically, the doctors here do all work by manually writing it down. The medicines dose, inter-reactions with other drugs etc. are frequently checked by doctors in their handheld electronic devices in standard drug formulatory manuals. The nurses frequently communicate with doctors to verify what is ordered in the cardex. 

The nurses have the responsibility that right amounts of drugs are administered exactly as ordered by the doctor; send lab investigation; request USG, ECG, X-rays to be do at bed site; clean patients; measure urine outputs; take measurements of temperature, BP, heart rate, oxygen level, fluid intake and release, and food taken. The nurses also need to take care of individual needs. While I was in the ICU, I witnessed patients who were asking for water - but the nurses had to restrict fluid intake due to her body asites. The doctors round takes place after 



Newari Proverbs

 A distress for a layman is a wealth for a priest

There is no remedy for a shameless person

Tomorrow's sun rises tomorrow

Too much talk and too little work

When call for a work one don't hear, when call for party one can hear

Buy your shoe to fit your feet

In blind's country you have to be blind

When you stumble you remember your mother

Women's ornament is goldsmith's food

An unwanted wife's breath smells

The river must be dammed when it floods

The crow does not care for the cow's wound.

You don't get smoke without a fire.

The discontented is always unhappy, and the contented is always happy.

Person who works don't get credit

The country you hear about is always pleasant and the country you live in is always unpleasant.

Saturday, December 11, 2021

Tihar: the Celebration of Victory over Death -- by Bal Gopal Shrestha

Tihar: the Celebration of Victory over Death 

Bal Gopal Shrestha Leiden University, The Netherlands 


Introduction 

Nepal is not only a land of gods and goddesses with numerous temples and idols, but also a land of feasts and festivals with numerous processions of deities and their worship. The chain of ritual celebration in Nepal is cyclical and it is difficult to render one celebration as the beginning and another as the end. Most people in the Valley consider that the ritual year begins on the day of Gathamugah, the day of expelling ghosts in August, and ends on the day of Sithinakhah, the day of worshipping lineage deities in June. However, many people also take the festival of Svanti or Tihar as the beginning of the ritual cycle in the Valley. The New Year's Day of the Nepal era falls on the fourth day of this festival, which is based on the lunar calendar. Since Nepalese people celebrate almost all their festivals according to lunar calendar the New Year's Day of the Nepal era is an important day. This year 1121-year of Nepal era begins on 28 October 2000. Historians believe that the tradition of celebrating New Year's day and Mhapuja is much older a tradition in Nepal than the Nepal Samvat. Nepalvarsa Kriya Nakhahcakhah Pustakam (a manual to Nepalese Festivals- NKNP) takes the festival of Svanti as the beginning of the ritual cycle in Nepal. 

Svanti is one of the national festivals of Nepal celebrated throughout the kingdom by the Hindu and Buddhist population of Nepal. This festival is known by several names: Svanti, Pancaka, Yamapancaka, Tihar and Dipavali. Both 'Tihar' and 'Dipavali' words are derived from the Hindi words 'Tyauhara' and 'Divali.' However, Svanti, Pancaka and Yamapancaka are words from Nepalese origin. The Newar people call the occasion 'Svanti' and celebrate it on their own peculiar way. This festival is rightly called the festival of light, because during this festival people illuminate their houses, streets, quarters, villages, towns and cities with as many lights as possible. On the fourth day of this festival Newar people celebrate their New Year's Day. 

During this festival performing dances with melodious songs: bhailo on the third and dyausi on the forth day is a typical tradition among the Parvates. In the evening of Laksmipuja, singing and dancing bhailo unmarried girls go to the doors of their neighbours, they are treated with delicious foods each house they visited, while in the following evening males perform dyausi. On the forth day of this festival the Parvate people also perform worship of the Mountain of cow dung (Gobardhan Parvat) and ox (Goru). According to a myth, the lord Krishna began this tradition to commemorate the day he protected the Braja people of Gokula from Indra's attack by creating a mountain of cow dung (Gobardhan Parvat). 

During this festival Yama, the god of death is invoked so it is called 'Yamapancaka' or 'Five days dedicated to Yama.' People presume that during these five days, Yama descends into this world. Yama's messengers like crow and dog are worshipped on the first and second day of this festival. On the third day, cow is worshipped. Although cow is worshipped as Laksmi, the goddess of wealth, she is also respected as an animal associated to the realm of Yama, whose assistance is necessary to people soon after their death to cross the river Baitarani to reach the heaven. Honouring Yama and his messenger Yamadut on the day of Mhapuja and worshipping Yama and his bookkeeper, Citragupta on the day of Kijapuja also indicate the relation of this festival to death. On the day of Mhapuja, Yama is honoured as a protective god while on the day of Kijapuja; he is worshipped as an elder brother and Citragupta as a younger brother. Although he is invoked all five days during this festival many disagree to name this festival "Yamapancaka" because the lofty way of celebrating the worship of Laksmi, worship of the self and worship of brothers have subsided Yama's worship. 

The Manual Book of Nepalese Festivals, NKNP suggests to begin this festival by worshipping Ganesa on the first day, Kachalaga (Kartik) Dvadasi, making it a sixday festival. However, in practice people begin this festival on Trayodasi by worshipping crow and consider it a five-day's festival. The worships, which are now popular among the Newars, are: 

-Kvapuja (first day): worship of crows, messengers (of Death) 

-Khicapuja (second day): worship of dogs 

-Sapuja and Laksmi puja (third day): worship of cows and Laksmi, the goddess of wealth 

-Mhapuja (fourth day): worship of the self, start of the New Year 

-Kijapuja (fifth day): worship of brothers by their sisters 


The festival and rituals 

1. Kvapuja (first day): worship of crows, messengers (of Death) 

On the first day of Yamapancaka, people worship and feed crows. In Newar households, it is common to offer a portion of food first to crow every morning before they eat their own meals in the morning. Crows are believed to be the messengers. They are supposed to carry messages for close relatives and friends from far away places. People assume the crows are delivering messages when they find them crowing. Depending upon the voice of crow people guess whether it is delivering good or bad message. When it crows near the house with a sweet bj" 14 14 voice, it is taken as a good message. Sometimes it's crowing is also taken as a hint of the imminent arrival of some guests. However, if the sound is harsh then it is supposed to be the indication of something bad that is going to happen. The crow is also supposed the messenger of Yama, the god of death. People believe that when somebody dies the departed soul (preta) finds its temporary shelter in a crow. At least for the first ten days of the impure period after a death, the departed soul is supposed to reside in a crow. Every morning during the first ten-day's mourning period, the chief mourner has to perform sraddha to offer a rice ball (pinda) and food stuffs to crows in the name of the deceased person. 

2. Khicapuja (second day): worship of dogs 

The second day of Svanti festival is Khicapuja, the day of worshipping of dogs. This day is dedicated to please the dogs. Not only pet dogs, even wandering dogs are respected and worshipped with flower garlands and delicious foods. The dogs are considered to be the guards at the doors of Yama's place and people believe that their worship help to the soul's passage at the time of one's death. Like the crows, dogs are supposed to be place of retreat for the recently deceased. As is the case with crow, the chief mourner performs sraddha to offer pinda and food stuffs to dog in the name of the deceased during the first ten days after somebody's death. Even when stray dogs intrude the house of the deceased person they are not supposed to be chased away, because people believe that a death person visits his or her house in disguise dogs. Dogs are also regarded as the vehicle of the fearful god, Bhairav and Nasadyo (Natyasvara), the god of dance and drama. They are also seen as gatekeepers of different temples of Kathmandu Valley. 

3. Sapuja: (third day) worship of cows as Laksmi and Laksmipuja 

Sa or cow is considered to be a representation of Laksmi, the goddess of wealth. On the third day of the festival of Svanti she is worshipped. In the morning, cow is worshipped and fed generously. People believe that her worship bring them good fortune. On this day, people attach sacred threads on the tail of a cow, which they received from the Brahmins on the day of Janaipurnima. People believe that this act enables them to receive cow's support in crossing the river Baitarani, which is said to create frightful barriers to sinful men. To give a cow as a gift to the Brahmins is one of the religious tasks of the Hindus that enable them to curb sins and to help them to reach heaven after their death. For them cow is the most sacred animal and her five products: milk, curd, butter, urine and dung are considered to be pure objects. 

Same day in the evening, after the worship of Cow people worships Laksmi, the goddess of wealth. Houses are specifically decorated with lights and made clean to receive her. People believe that she visits only those houses, which are made clean and illuminated. Laksmi has been represented by another word 'Sri' that means the sum of beauty and betterment, so they also honour her as the goddess Srilaksmi. Since ancient times, the meaning and interpretation of Laksmi has been numerous. Especially eight (astalaksmi) and sixteen (sodsalaksmi) names are invoked to please her during her worship. Traditional painters provide a peculiar picture of a Laksmi: -she has four hands; one of her right hands is carrying a traditional mirror (jvalanhaykam) and another is in abhay mudra; one of her left hands is carrying a vermilion container (sinhammhu) and another is in bara mudra; she is seated on the throne; adorned with glittering dresses and ornaments on her body; wearing a golden crown on her head; her right foot is touching a tortoise and the left one is in padmasana mudra; a Kubera (god of wealth) and two khyah (benevolent ghost) are present her in front. 

The preparation for her worship begins early in the morning in every household by smearing every floor with cow dung mixed with red clay and water. A line of cow dung and red clay leading from the front of the house links the secret shrine of Laksmi when women smear their houses. This is to let the goddess Laksmi find her way to the worshipping place so that she may bestow wealth there. They brush nook and corner of their houses. They also garland doors of their houses and paint them with colour powders (Newar: sinham), specially, shops. Those who own a shop away from their own home must worship Laksmi at their shop first, then join their family to worship Laksmi at home. 

In every house, Laksmi is kept in a secret worship place called agam. All the family members must join the worship. The eldest male member of the family (nayo) is in charge of the worship, while women are responsible to make ready puja plates and clean the houses. Worship ingredients are generally red and yellow powders, incenses, rice, popped rice, threads (jajamka), yoghurt, flowers, seasonal fruits, sweets and other foodstuffs. A painting of a Laksmi by a traditional painter is used to represent the goddess at the worship room. Old and new coins, money, gold, silver and all the treasures of the house are exhibited to receive worship on this occasion. At least one new coin must be offered to Laksmi or added to their stores. New utensils, new grains (paddy, rice, and wheat), measuring objects (mana, kule, and pathi) and weighing objects (dha) are also worshipped. To offer Laksmi with grains from the new harvest is an essential ritual on this occasion, because, they must offer her it first before they consume it themselves. They believe that Laksmi is the goddess of grains whose grace is necessary to gain good crops from their fields. The main reason of honouring Laksmi is to confer her grace to increase one's own wealth and prosperity. People worship her everyday, but they believe that this worship may bring them a great fortune for a whole year. 

After the worship, family members eat a feast. Dried meat (sukula) of different animals, kept from the festival of Mohani is consumed today. Of course each foodstuff is first offered to the goddess Laksmi before the family eats itself. For three nights keeping her in the same place and worshipping her every day with great bj" 15 15 respect assure Laksmi's presence. Then on the day after Kijapuja or on the fourth day's morning, Laksmi's blessing is carried out (svam kokayegu) from the secret place and distributed among the family members. Gambling starts from the day of Laksmipuja for three days and three nights, which is legally forbidden during other times of the year. People believe that gambling is auspicious during Svanti, which might bring them a good fortune. 

4. Mha puja (fourth day): worship of the self, start of the New Year 

Mha puja is one of the oldest traditions of Nepal. This tradition is older than that of the Nepal era itself. Bhuvanlal Pradhan assumes that one of the Licchavi kings, most probably Manadeva I (464-505 AD) may have begun this festival during his reign. Paying all the debts of Nepalese, a generous wealthy trader called Samkhadhar Sakhvala began the Nepal era on 20 October, 879 AD during the reign of King Raghavadeva. As we stated above, the celebration of New Year's day and Mhapuja on the same day is a tradition more ancient than the Nepal era itself, but it happened that the Nepal era was introduced on this day. Malla rules in the Valley of Nepal used this era as the official era till their rule ended in 1769. In 1769 AD, after the Gorkha conquest of Nepal, the Shah rulers began to use Saka Samvat, and that was later replaced with Vikram Samvat by the Rana Prime minister Chandra Shamser in 1903 AD. So far the use of Nepal Samvat never completely wiped out. Since the 1950s, Newar elite began to celebrate the New Year's day of the Nepal era as a public event in modern Nepal. Since it is called Nepal Samvat their demand is to recognise it as a national era. As the demand came from the Newars it began to be labelled as the Nevari Samvat by many non-Newar people. Recently, in 1999, Samkhadhar Sakhvala, the founder of Nepal era has been declared a national hero of Nepal. Newar people have taken this decision as a gesture of recognising Nepal Samvat as a national era. 

Three calendar systems are in use in Nepal. They are, the solar based Vikram Era (Samvat) for the day to day business of His Majesty's Government (HMG); the Christian calendar by international organisations, HMG, business firms and individuals, and lunar based calendars to celebrate all the feast and festivals. The Royal Nepal Calendar Deciding Committee (Nepal Rajakiya Pamca_ga Nirnayaka Samiti), a body composed of astrologers, is authorised to publish Samvat calendars. They publish these calendars at the beginning of the solar month of Baisakha (March/April) to mark the New Year of the solar-based Vikram Era. Although the aim of the Royal Nepal Calendar Decision Committee is to serve the government by providing a solar based calendar, their calendars also include a detailed lunar calendar together with Christian dates as well. From the beginning of their publications they have been including Nepal era naming it "Nepaldesiya Samvat" or the "Era of the country Nepal." Their method of presenting a lunar calendar is based on the Indian astrological systems, so that there are no great differences between the Indian and the Nepalese lunar calendar. In Nepal the lunar years begin either in the spring or fall. If begins in the spring, it is known as Caitradi and if in the fall is known as Kartikadi. The first one is also known as Purnmantaka month, ending on a full moon day while the latter one is Amantaka ending on the new moon. Purnamantaka month begins from Krisnapaksa or dark half while the Amantaka month begins from Suklapaksa or bright half. 

On the New Year's day Mhapuja is celebrated in a great way. On this day, people must perform Mhapuja to all the deities located in their neighbourhood before they perform the worship of the self (Mhapuja) at their houses. Usually Mhapuja is performed at the top floor of a house in the evening. The floor is cleaned and smeared with cow dung and red clay. Then mandala, a cosmic circle of flour is drawn for everybody. Mandala are also drawn for those members of the family who are absent and for the guests who are present on the occasion. They also draw some mandala in the name of all the three hundred thirty million deities (tetisakoti dyo); Yama, his messenger (Yamadut) and Siva's messenger (Sivadut); and for household items, such as broom, winnow, grind stone, pestle, mortar, measuring pots (mana and pathi), water container (karuva), and earthen pitcher. Yama, his messenger, Ganesa, Laksmi, Kubera, Baliraja are made of steamed rice flour and displayed on the top of the row. In the centre of each mandala a small oil mandala is drawn. Then red powder, flowers, popped rice, husked rice are showered over the mandala. A small kind of rice pastry (lvahacamari), walnuts, incenses, chestnuts, large wild lime, citrus medica common citron (tahsi), citrus fruit (bhvagatya) thread (jajamka), flower garland and long wicks (kheluita) are placed around a mandala to be handed over to the person sitting in front of the mandala. As far as possible, all the members of the family sit in a single row in front of each one's mandala facing east. Facing south is most undesirable because it is believe to be inauspicious. The eldest male member (nayo) of the house sits ahead of the row, then his juniors, unmarried daughters and other women are behind according to age seniority. 

The nayo worships to a small lamp containing a figure of Ganesa (sukunda) before he begins other ritual activities. All other members of the family also throw a few grains of rice to Ganesa in a gesture of worship. Then the eldest woman (nakim) of the house puts a tika on everybody's forehead; she is assisted by other elder women to hand over the kheluita, jajamka and fruits to everybody. One must light owns kheluita and put on one's own mandala. This act can be seen as the actual moment of worshipping the self. The eldest woman pours (luigu) worship items like flower, husked rice, popped rice, peas, peanuts, and hazelnuts on the mandala of each person, then, she pours three times over the body of each person. This is to wish health, happiness and prosperity to the person worshipped. Then fruits, thread and flower garlands are handed over. Towards the end of the ceremony, worshipped persons are also handed over sagam, a ritual blessing which includes an egg, a fish, pieces of boiled meat and bread made of lentil (va) together with liquor to wish them a happy and prosperous days ahead. Before the ritual ends a piece of tahsi and other fruits are eaten. Walnuts, tahsi, kheluita and mandala are very important items of the day. Mandala represents the person worshipped, kheluita his life, tahsi his purity and walnut his strength. It is necessary to keep on lighting kheluita until the worship is finished. It is considered a bad sign if it extinguishes in between the ritual, because people link the light with a person's life span. The Mhapuja ceremony ends with the sweeping away of the decorated mandala from the bottom of the row to top and from the top to bottom. After sweeping away the mandala, the worship ceremony is ended, and a family feast then starts marking the actual end of the celebration of Mhapuja. 

By celebrating Mhapuja people anticipate a successful and prosperous life in the coming year. This worship is also supposed to provide people with a good health and a long life. The way of celebrating this festival may vary from one family to another, but the essence of the celebration is not differently understood. Like in all other Newar festivals women play a major role in arranging the necessary items for the worship. They also take the responsibility of worshipping all the male members of the family. In case, if a person is living alone he must perform his Mhapuja himself, in such a case it can be considered a real worship of the self. Worship of the self is to recognise God in oneself. The celebration of Mhapuja indicates that one who recognises his capability may turn himself a god. To be a god means to be able to sacrifice yourself for the well being of others. According to Baldev Juju, the ultimate aim of a person is to achieve the stage of god. 

During the Mhapuja, the charitable demon king Baliraj is also worshipped. A myth tells that he was pushed into netherworld (patala) by the god Visnu to prevent him from winning the heaven. By the power of his vow of giving gifts, Baliraj was about to win the heaven, this alarmed all the gods, so one day the disguised Visnu, arrived at Baliraj's door as a saint and begged some space for his three steps. Generous Baliraj happily granted the disguised Visnu a permission to step wherever he wanted. Visnu used this opportunity only to deceive Baliraj. Visnu covered whole of the heaven by his first step and the earth by his second step, so Baliraj had nothing left than his own head for Visnu's third step that enabled Visnu to push him down to the netherworld. However, after this disgraceful task Visnu asked Baliraj if he had any wishes. For this, Baliraja requested a permission to visit his kingdom to see his people once a year. Visnu granted him the day of Mhapuja as his day on the earth. This myth tells that the joyous celebration of Mhapuja is to assure the King Baliraj that his people are living happily in his country. 

5. Kijapuja (fifth day): worship of brothers 

This is the final day of the five-day's observance of the Yamapancaka or the Svanti festival. Today sisters worship their brothers to bless them health, happiness and prosperity. This festival is celebrated not only by the Newars but also by the Parvates and others in Nepal. Among the Newars this day is known as the day of Kijapuja while the Parvates call it Bhaitika. For most Newars it is the occasion to worship both younger and elder brothers, but for many others it is the day to worship only their younger brothers. On this day, married sisters return to their parental homes to worship their brothers or brothers visit their sisters to receive worship from them. The reigning king also observes this festival by receiving tika from his sisters. Every year a royal astrologer announces the most auspicious time to receive tika from sisters, but apart from the king, people choose their own convenient time for the worship. On the day of Kijapuja, Yama and Citragupta are worshipped together with brothers so mandala is drawn for them too. 

On the day of Mhapuja they are placed on the top of the row of worship, but on the day of Kijapuja they are placed at the bottom. Most ingredients used in Kijapuja are similar to Mhapuja, such as the drawing of mandala, oil mandala, flowers, rice, husked rice, popped rice, kheluita, incenses, walnut, varieties of fruits that includes tahsi. The way of worshipping brothers by their sisters is also similar to Mhapuja, but this time the actors are sisters. The most important items of the day are oil mandala, walnut, tahsi and gvaysvam (a small nut shaped flower). 

Explaining slokas from Satkarma Ratnavali and traditional calendar (patro), Naghabhani confirms that the tradition of the worship of brothers by their sisters on this day is a tradition derived from the legendary worship of Yama by his younger sister Yamuna. He thinks it is wrong to call the day 'Kijapuja' or 'worship of younger brother' because the texts do not specify this aspect of brotherhood. He thinks it is appropriate to worship both younger and elder brothers. Yamuna is also identified with Yami. According to a Hindu myth, Yama and Yami are son and daughter of Vivasvat (the sun) and Saranyu and are twins. Yami tried to persuade Yama to marry her, but Yama refused the proposal of incest marriage, as he was afraid of being called evil man. Another myth tells that on this day a sister was preparing a worship of her brother, but Yama, the god of death arrived to take away her brother because his life span on the earth was ended. The clever sister persuaded Yama to wait and witness the worship. She worshipped Yama together with her brother, which charmed Yama. Thus, Yama awarded her a boon that saved her brother's life. This myth tells that she requested Yama not to take away her brother until the oil mandala dried up and gvaysvam faded away. People believe that a mandala made from oil never dries up; so gvaysvam never fades away, and Yama had to give up the idea of taking away her brother. It is believed that from that time onwards sisters began worshipping brothers on the same day to commemorate the mythical event believing that it will bestow a long life on their own brothers. This myth makes it clear that people assume a victory over death by worshipping Yama, the god of death, together with brothers. Hence this occasion can be taken as a celebration of the victory of life over death. The day of Kijapuja is also to exchange gifts among brothers and sisters. Not only do sisters worship  their brothers and bless them for happiness and long life but they also feed them delicious foods, sweets, fruits, walnut, chestnut, betel nut, pistachio nuts, cashew nuts, almonds, raisins, cinnamon, chocolates and cloves (masala pva). In return brothers give money or clothe (sari) or both or other materials to their sisters. The end of the worship of brothers is considered to be the end of the five-day long Svanti festival, but the real closure of the festival takes place on the following day of Kijapuja. 

On this day, early in the morning, the final worship of Laksmi is performed and the blessings of Laksmi are carried out from the agam to be distributed among the family members. The blessings include flower, tika, sweets, fruits and a feast. Married out daughters and sisters are also invited to receive the blessings and to attend the feast. Significance of the festival Pancaka is a Sanskrit name given to this festival, which mean 'consisting of five. To call this festival 'Pancaka' seems appropriate since this festival is celebrated for five consecutive days. 'Pancaka is generally considered inauspicious period, which may accord many times in a year. Auspicious tasks like seeding in the fields are avoided during such a period. It is considered most dangerous when somebody dies in a family during any of a day of a Pancaka. People believe that it can attract five lives from the same family when somebody dies during a Pancaka. When somebody dies in Pancaka adequate attention is given to avoid such a mischief. Adding eggs with the corpse to substitute lives is one of the crucial acts performed in such a case. As the god of death, Yama is accountable for determining death of all the creatures in the world. Therefore, Yama's predominance during the Pancaka festival is clear. In this regard the name 'Yamapancaka' or 'Five days dedicated to Yama' given to this festival is significant. People may regard Pancaka as a festival is good period, but the danger of death is not suspended. It is more so because of Yama's imminent presence during this festival. Yama's presence from the first day of the festival to the end is remarkable. To celebrate a festival in the presence of Yama, the god of death can be considered the most vulnerable one. Therefore people may have taken this opportunity as an occasion to appease Yama so that they receive his mercy. By worshipping Yama people anticipate his favour for a long life in the world and heaven after one's death. Hindu people believe as soon as one dies one's departed soul moves to Yama' court. There all souls are judged; either they are awarded heaven or they are sent to hell. Like all other religious communities in the world, death enchants Nepalese society very much. Remembering, worshipping and appeasing deceased ancestors (pitri) is a dominant feature of Newar ritual life. Every morning, sons must offer water and foods to their deceased ancestors. During all major and minor festivals the ancestors are presented foods (jugibvah), when there is any special family ceremony like marriage or other lifecycle rituals, they are involved. Sraddha is performed once a year to worship and feed them. In this respect, the worship of Yama, the god of death during the Svanti festival is not an astonishing act, but is another occasion to appease Yama who might otherwise cause untimely death or trouble after one's death. It is likely that people may have initiated the festival of Yamapancaka to overcome death. However, as it is now, the main prominence of the festival is not Yama, but the worships of Laksmi, the worship of the self and the worship of brothers. Although people celebrate this festival for five days, they consider only these three days are most important days and celebrated with pomp. Scholars agree upon the fact that the Newar name "Svanti' for this festival is derived from the words 'Svanhu Tithi' or "Three-day festival.' On the third day of the festival worship of Laksmi, the goddess of wealth is celebrated with great fanfare. By worshipping Laksmi people are taught to live a balanced life with adequate wealth. It clearly shows that Newar society, although its social life is principally guided in a religious and spiritual manner, they also take into account that material prosperity and happiness in their life is essential. The worship of Laksmi and the worship of brothers are no less important days of this festival, but the Newars take Mhapuja or the worship of the self as the most important event of the festival. Mhapuja is prevalent only among the Newars. In many respects Mhapuja can be considered a unique Nepalese traditions. Worship of the self or worship of one's body (mha) and soul (atma) is Mhapuja. For religious minded people, body and soul are two different phenomena. They believe that their body is temporal one while their soul is an immortal. They believe that in a person a god is residing. Hence a person is part of a god or goddess, so the worship of the self is an occasion to respect or recognise the god in oneself. Nepalese tradition of worshipping gods and goddesses is to invoke their power (sakti). Hence, the worship of the self is to understand one's capability and to utilise it for the betterment of human beings and the whole universe, in order to enable oneself to attend the level of a god or goddess. The last day's worship of brothers is another important day of this festival. This tradition is one of the most popular customs in the region of South Asia. It is not only religiously meaningful but also from a social point of view it is significant, because it plays a great role in strengthening the relation between brothers and sisters. A balanced relation between brothers and sisters is one of the essential aspects of Nepalese social life. Especially the relation between out married sisters and brothers is crucial. If not handled thoughtfully the bond may turn very unpleasant. In such a situation they lose dignity in their society. The day of Kijapuja provides brothers and sisters an opportunity to up keep their relationship. Of course one of the most important aspects of this festival is the change of the lunar year. The five day's celebrations of Svanti festival ends after the Kijapuja but it gives a way to renew the whole cycle of rituals for one full year. It is clear from our earlier discussions that the celebrating the turn of the year on this day is an ancient tradition in Nepal. Therefore, I found it appropriate to call this occasion the turn of the ritual year in Nepal, because except two festivals: Ghyocakusalhu and Bisketjatra all the feasts and festivals in the Nepal are celebrated according to lunar calendar. In India too, those who follow the Kartikadi lunar calendar take this occasion as the turn of the ritual year and celebrate their New Year's day. As Tyauhar or Divali, this is a widely celebrated festival among the Hindus in India and other countries. It can be well assumed that the tradition of the celebration of the New Year might have in a long run created the wonderful festival of Svanti or Yamapancaka. Although the Nepal Samvat was later invented than the tradition of the celebration of the New Year and Mhapuja, it has made a history in itself by its continuation of 1120 years. This is thanks to Samkhadhara Sakhvala, who, unlike others in the world who preferred their own names, took the name of his country for the Era he established. It will be erroneous to call the Nepal era a Newar or Newari Samvat. There is no reason that only the Newars feel proud of the Nepal era because the name 'Nepal' implies that it belongs to all Nepalese. Last year His Majesty's Government of Nepal declared Samkhadhar Sakhvala, the founder of the Nepal era, a national hero.

Conclusion

This festival contains five major components: the worship of bird and animals like crow, dog and cow, the invocation of Yama by worshipping his messengers and himself, the worship of Laksmi or wealth, worship of the self on the New Year's day and worship of brothers. The necessity of the combination of these five different ritual activities in one single festival is difficult to be explained. The most prevalent feature of this festival is the presence of Yama or death. Since this festival is also called 'Yamapancaka' it is logical. However, if we consider this is only the festival of Yama, then the worship of Laksmi, the self and brothers cannot logically be fitted in. Crow, dog and cow are one or other way related to Yama and his realm, therefore their worship during this festival make a sense, but Yama's worship together with the self and brothers is difficult to be comprehended. The relation between two ritual sequels: worship of the self and worship of brothers is not clear to me either. Although the natures of worshipping in these two days are similar the actors are different who carry out the rituals; so on the values and meanings of each day's rituals are different too. Why the worship of the self and brothers are observed after the worship of Laksmi is not understandable either. For that matter no distinct reasons are there to be explained the relation of each day's ritual with another and the reasons of their sequence.

Yama is invoked throughout the festival but his absence at the time of Laksmi's worship is a puzzle. Whether it is an intended one or he is forgotten or ignored in the presence of wealth is unknown. The reason may be that people prefer forgetting death when they are engaged at worshipping wealth or busy with material life. Perhaps it is to tell that the wealth makes people blind and even it let people forget inevitable truth like death. May be this is an occasion to demarcate a line between material life and spiritual life. However, when we look at the worship of cow in the same morning, an animal related to realm of Yama, as the goddess of wealth, then hardly we can see the real separation of wealth from the death. Perhaps it is to give a message to let people realise the danger of engagement in material life, which make them so busy that they become unaware of obvious truths like death.

Since people are busy honouring Yama from the first day of the festival to its end this festival can more appropriately be called the celebration of Yama or death. In this regard the name 'Yamapancaka' is most suitable name for this festival. Yama as the god of death is considered to be a less compassionate divinity. For people his worship is much out of fear than to honour his divinity. People know that death is inevitable in one's own life but they like to avoid it as far as possible. Perhaps this festival is celebrated to let people realise the limitation of one's life hence gives them an opportunity to learn about the truth of death or the essence of life. It is clear that the real motive behind the invocation of Yama as the protective god at the time of the New Year's celebration or worship of the self is to plead his grace for the continuation of life for another year without being obstructed by him. Similarly, his worship together with brothers is also thought to receive his blessings for health and life of brothers. These two events can be considered the celebration of life, albeit with the mercy of Yama, the death. By worshipping him, people endeavour to subjugate the power of death. It is more significant that Mhapuja is performed as the first ritual of the New Year and people anticipate health, long life, happiness and prosperity in the New Year. Yama's worship at such an occasion to pray for his protection is meaningful, because he is the god who possesses the power of determining people's life span in the world and their fate after death. Yama's acceptance of being worshipped as a protective god in this festival by people can be taken as his willingness of showing his compassion. Compassion towards human beings of the god of death can be more accurately called the defeat of the death of god. In this regard the celebration of worship of the self and worship brothers both can be considered the celebration of overcoming of death. Hence we can affirm the festival of Svanti as the celebration of victory over death.


Folk Stories from Nepal - Karna Shakya

  “The Tale of the Goddess of Tales”

There was a king who loved listening to stories and used to call a storyteller every night, but always he would fall asleep before the story ended. At this, the goddess of tale became very angry and humiliated because the king didn’t pay respect to the stories.
One day, the goddess of the tale decided to punish the king . She appeared in the dream of a minister whom the king would trust a lot. She warned him that the king either should listen to the story completely or mustn’t listen to the story anymore and if he didn’t do so she would have to kill him. The minister conveyed this message to the king and the king promised the minister that he will try to be awake until the story finishes. But he fell asleep again. This incident made the goddess angrier and again the goddess of the tale came in the dream of the same minister and forecasted the death of king that she will kill the king by putting needle in his food. If he would be able to be alive then she would make fall of a branch from the tree when he took rest in it. By chance if he became successful to be alive, she would send a poisonous snake into his bedroom at night. Even she warned him not to disclose it in front of the king. If he did so he would turn into a stone immediately.


But at last when he saved the king from the poisonous snake, a drop of snake’s blood made a spot on the face of the queen. He tried to wipe it with his hand meanwhile king awakened and saw him touching the queen. He misunderstood the minister and ordered to give death penalty for him. Then the minister wanted to make the fact clear to the king; so, finally he disclosed the truth being worriless of goddess’s warning. He explained how he saved the king. As soon as he finished his explanation he turned into a stone. The king later on realized that he misjudged the loyal minister. Then he started to listen to the story full.
Message: The tale gives us the message that we must follow the rules of the God anyhow. We mustn’t try to break the rules and limitations of the God/Goddess. People are supposed to be the follower of rules that are made by the particular religion or God.

 “The Fox Who Saved the Priest”
There was a Brahmin who performed rituals by worshipping for inhabitants of different villages. Once, he was invited to perform a religious ceremony in a far village. Walking through the forest, he saw a tiger trapped in a cage. Tiger politely asked him to let him out of the cage and promised not to eat the man who saved his life. But the tiger could not resist the temptation and be ready to eat him. Brahmin requested the tiger not to eat before asking permission with three living things.
At first, they asked a tree and the tree replied to eat that man because all humans are so dishonest that ’’I give them shelter but they cut me in to pieces and burn.’’ Secondly, they asked a donkey, but he also replied the same. Then they asked the fox, the fox was clever and wanted to see the cage. After that, he said to the tiger to show how he was trapped in the cage. Finally, the tiger jumped into the cage and the fox locked the cage. The Brahmin was safe and the fox portrayed him as a wise man but unaware of principle of life.
Message: In this tale, we can find the conversation between human beings and animals. It shows the difference between human and animal behavior when they are in power. We can also think about the principles of human and animal life.



“The Tragic Love of the Uttis Tree”
Many years ago, in the Himalayas of Nepal, it was the custom for trees and flowers to marry in the same way that man and woman do. The story was about the marriage proposal of Laliguras and Uttis tree. The pipal tree was the matchmaker. Pipal was looking out a suitable husband for a beautiful Laliguras tree. Pipal tree saw a handsome, tall and full crowned evergreen Uttis tree and asked him to marry the Laliguras tree. Uttis tree met the Laliguras in the mid-winter; she had lost her beauty, exposing her crooked skeleton. Then, Uttis tree refused to marry the Laliguras tree.
Time passed and once again the beauty of Laliguras returned in the spring and summer season. All trees of the forest were dazzled by her beauty. The pipal tree again requested Uttis tree to look at the Laliguras. When he saw the Laliguras so beautiful, he fell in love with her. He agreed to marry her. But the Laliguras refused to accept him because he had insulted her in last winter.
The Uttis tree couldn’t tolerate her refusal and committed suicide by throwing himself over a mountain. The matchmaker promised never again involved in such thankless job. And from that day, the Bandevi (Goddess of the forest) outlawed the tradition of marriage between trees and forest.
Message: This tale is about the marriage practices of the trees in the same way men and women do. Romance and love is essential for all the living creatures, not only for human beings. Here in the story, the members of forest community Pipal, Uttis and Laliguras trees are acting as human beings.

“Chandra Mukhi in the Land of Impossible Tasks”
Long ago, there lived a brave king who had two wives, but he was childless. When a hermit refused to accept alms from the sterile women both queens became sad. They were advised that the king had to go on difficult and long penance to get children. The king thus meditated for 12 years. Finally God Vishnu was pleased and gave the king 2 custard apples for queens so that they could bear children. Both gave birth to babies, but the first wife told the mid wife to abandon the second wife’s son in a box by the river and told the king that the second wife had given birth to mussal (chopping block).
The box that contained the baby was found by a fisherman and adopted the baby. Very soon he turned into a handsome youth and was named Chandra Mukhi. The king was disappointed by the son of first queen who grew up to a very cruel prince. So he decided to find an able heir to rule the kingdom. He proclaimed that whoever could ride bayupankhi (a fleet-footed horse) could be his heir. Nobody could do so except Chandra Mukhi. The king was pleased to see such a man. The king also knew that he was his own son, after fisherman disclosed the truth. The prince was happy with his biological parents.
The prince’s marriage was fixed with Sunkeshari, who had golden hair, with gold dust had sprinkled at her every step. In order to marry her, the prince had to accomplish many impossible tasks given by the king who had been the father of the princess. In spite of his hard tasks, he did all these task with the help of his friends. Finally the king gave his daughter`s hand to Chandra Mukhi. Thus Chandra Mukhi and the princess got married and lived happily forever.
Message: We learn from the tale that how positive thinking have impact in our life. How positive thinking helps us to get success in our life. In the story, the prince Chandra Mukhi is one of the characters who inspires us to think positively.

“The Right Husband”There was a merchant’s family with two sons and a daughter. One day, the mother asked her husband and two sons to find a suitable boy for her daughter to marry. The three men set out to look for a boy; they came home and set the wedding date. But there arose a big problem. The three men had forgotten to decide to whom the girl was to marry. Therefore, all three grooms came prepared. And none wanted to give up.
The girl did not want to upset her father or brothers by choosing one of their choices. Rather she jumped into the ritual fire and died. Among the saddened grooms, the first man also jumped after her; another went to meditate on her name. The third one traveled from country to country to find another bride. He met a learned Brahman, who had power of returning the dead to life. He worked with him to acquire the knowledge, but the Brahman did not allow it.
One day, when the Brahman was out with his wife, he read a holy book and revived her, but then the young man too was reborn. Again there arose the same problem. The first man claimed that the girl should be his as he sacrificed his life for her. Another man said that she should be his because he gave her this new life. In the meantime, the third man arrived. He said that he meditated on her name so her heart was closer to his, thus she should be his. The argument did not seem to subside, so they went to Gorkha King.


The king made decision based upon the Hindu customs. The man, who died with the girl and was reborn with her now should be her twin brother. So he can’t marry her. The other man, who acquired the power of restoring life should be her father because he gave her this life. So he too can’t marry her. Therefore, the man, who had been meditating on her name, only can marry her. All three men are happy and convinced by the king’s fair judgment. The beautiful lady married the second young man.Message: “The Right Husband” has its source from Hindu religious background where a marital tie within a family or relatives is not allowed. The reference of the ancient practices of magical powers, which is one of the key features of folktales make the story more interesting. Descriptions of Gorkha King and his wisdom of judgment indicate the Nepali culture of the mid-eighteen century.

“Confrontation with a Kichikinny”
There was rowdy gang of the young men, who were very adventurous. The name of the gang leader was Hakcha. Once the gang heard a rumor about kitchkinny in another locality. Hakcha wanted to catch her. On the moonlight night, they saw a beautiful woman standing at the crossroad. Hakcha told his plan to his friends and went there. The woman welcomed him with her hands. He tried to catch her, but she jumped away. Hakcha followed her about half an hour and arrived at a cremation area on the river bank, the Kichkinny stopped and extended her hand and invited him. Hakcha and his loyal friends held her down all night and when the first rays of sun appeared, all they found was charred log. They consulted this unbelievable event with the old priest. The priest told that the incomplete cremation, the nymphomanic’s soul had entered a log. So the priest told them to burn every splinter of the log. After that, nobody ever heard of Kichkinny in that locality again.
Message: This tale shows the peculiar nature of women in our society and celebration of their beauty. It also ravels people’s blind faith in the existence of evil power. The tale shows the emergence of a Kichkinny due to an incomplete cremation of a supposed nymphomaniac.

“The Story of a Monkey Lady”
There was a brave king who had seven sons, who were experts in archery. The youngest son of the king happened to marry a monkey because of his karma whereas his six brothers married to girls from respected family backgrounds. All princes were given separate homes by the king and had to offer a grand feast in their marriage occasion. When it was the turn of youngest one, he became worried of his wife's beauty. But she turned into an elegant woman after casting herself from the wild monkey. She welcomed him in a beautifully ornamented home when he was returning after dropping a letter. Everyone except six brothers was happy during the marriage feast. Later six brothers were jealous toward the beauty of her and hatched a plot. They later suggested burning the skin of monkey. He blindly believed in their malicious act.
When the youngest prince secretly burnt the skin of monkey, she also started to burn and ran towards the forest. While following her, he met different hermits and got different magic objects from them. He disguised himself as a hermit. With the help of these tools he got popularity in that community and invited by the king of that area whose daughter was sick. He cured her with magic ointment. Delighted king offered him his daughter when he knew about him as a prince. Later they returned happily to their kingdom.
Message: The tale is based on Chinese folktale. The central issue of this tale is the phenomenon of changing from a monkey in to a beautiful lady. It offers bizarre incidents one after another., which makes the story most entertainingly.

“The Tale of Seven Sisters”
In a village, there lived a farmer with seven daughters. His wife had already passed away when the girls were so young and the farmer remarried after sometime. The step-mother was so jealous of them and treated them very badly. She wanted to keep distance between girls and their father. Finally, she succeeded on it. They planned to abandon the girls into the forest.
The farmer took them to the forest and left them showing his cruelty. The daughters grieved bitterly and decided to move ahead for their survival. On the way, they encountered a palace where their plight had been changed completely. They possessed whole property of that palace with their wisdom.On the other hand, their father was having measurable condition. He lost all his property and running his livelihood by selling turmeric. One day, he happened to reach the palace. All the sisters recognized him and welcomed him in their palace. The farmer became extremely ashamed for his wrong deeds. They also gave some gift to her father.
When the step-mother got the valuable gift offered by the girls she became more greedy. She came to the palace herself. The sisters gave her a present of marikashi. They instructed her to open it only when she was alone in her room. Immediately, she rushed to her room to see the gift but to her horror a venomous snake darted out and bit her to death. Later on, the sisters and their father started living in the palace happily.
Message: “The Tale of Seven Sisters” reflects the different culture of the people with their nature of affection, jealously, separation, reunion and revenge. The moral lesson of the tale is that culture of people that of brave and the good being awarded, of greed and wickedness punished and lost everything.

“Taming Husband”There lived a couple. The husband was a merchant, who spent money on women and drinks and came home late. The sad wife made many attempts to change his habits, but in vain.
One day, she planned to tame her husband. She dressed beautifully and sat on her window inviting four men to her home one after another. When the first man arrived, she lovingly offered him to eat beaten-rice and four blocks of rock salt. He ate up everything. Then, there came the second man. She quickly hid the first man upstairs. Second man too ate the same. Then there came another. This way, by the time her husband came home late at night, she had already hidden four men on top floor. Because it was dark there, nobody was aware of each other.
When her husband came, she told him that the house was haunted and now it had become unbearable for her. Right then, some creeping sounds came from upstairs, the husband was scared. In fact, the sounds were produced as the men, dehydrated after eating so much dry beaten-rice and salt, came out in search of water. The husband became more frightened by hearing all those sounds. Then again, one of the men found a coconut and cracked it on another’s baldhead thinking it to be a stone. The man yelled out in pain, which created a commotion there. All men jumped out of the windows. The husband hid himself under the bed. After some time, when things were clear and sound was gone, he came out from under the bed. Convinced by the incident, he promised that he would never leave her alone again and they lived happily ever after.
Message: “Taming Husband” could be called a romantic comedy. It beautifully portrays the psyche of a lovelorn wife whose only dream is to regain love and support of her straying husband.

“The Greedy Couple”There lived a greedy couple in a village. They constantly quarreled for a small thing. So, the neighbors were irritated by the old couple. One day the old man brought five ripe mangoes, later they disputed while dividing it. To solve the problem, they had an agreement that whomever breaks the silence would get only two mangoes.
They remained silent for a week, which made villagers to suspect that the couple might have died. So, they prepared the cremation ceremony and lit the pyre. But the villagers were shocked and scared when the couple began to argue with each other while rising from pyre. Both the couple rushed to their home for mangoes but it was already rotten. After that they decided to live doing nothing and without helping each other which ultimately led to their death.
Message: The tale depicts the stingy aspect of human nature, which we can be seen in our society. And such greedy nature of people disturb the harmony of the society. It also teaches us that greed takes people nowhere but to their own downfall.

“Chhattu, the Young Farmer”
The tale is a story about young lazy and clever boy named "Chattu". His name itself reflects his cleverness. Once he visited another village and became servant of rich Brahmin priest. Chattu had his eyes on the beautiful, young wife of Brahmin. One day he became successful in seducing a beautiful wife of a farmer. He demanded money from the priest to keep these things secret. While collecting money he went to other village and again cheated the shopkeeper and gained molasses and beaten rice free of cost. Chattu even gained a sheep from a shepherd and got money by selling it. Once he got job in the palace of a king, there he introduced himself by several names to different people like: he told his name as husband to princess, son-in law to queen and penis to king. These several names created comic and misunderstanding situations when he raped and kidnapped the princess. Finally the princess also accepted him as his wife, seeing his cleverness. Chattu also left his crafty ways and lived happily with the princess.
Message: "Chattu, the Young Farmer" is "a sample tale centered on sexual jokes". It is destiny that Chhatu from lower class gets princess as his wife.


“Looking for a Husband”
Many years ago there was a lady rat which meditated and rewarded from God Vishnu that she would marry the greatest being.
Lady rat firstly consulted with the sun but the sun said that the cloud should be more powerful than him so she went to the cloud with her marriage proposal. But the cloud also said that the wind would be more powerful than him. Lady rat visited the wind, but the wind said that the mountain would be more powerful than him because he can block the wind. And, the lady rat consulted the mountain and again the mountain said that its rat should be more powerful than him because the rat can make hole on the mountain. So, finally the lady rat is convinced that the rat which is from her own species is the most powerful and greater, so the lady rat married the rat happily.
Message: "Looking for Husband” is very old and famous tale about a lady rat who has ambition to marry the greatest being in the world but after consulting with several greater beings like sun, wind, cloud, and mountain, she is ready to marry a rat who belongs to her own species.
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The Story of Dhon Cholecha
(Newari Folk Tale)

Every Newar family in Kathmandu Valley knows this story. It is especially popular amongst children. It is one of the few Nepalese folktales with a rigid structure. It is told without any variation, and has definite title. This is one of the many folktales which present the step-mother as a wicked and jealous person. On the other hand, the step-daughter is presented as sweet and innocent. Surprisingly, a very close counterpart of this story called "Teja Teji" is found in the Assam region of India. The principal plot and narrative are almost identical. The source is evidently the same, but one cannot say if it originated in India or in Kathmandu. The narrator of this story, sixty-nine year old Herman Singh, claims that this is the single most important and earliest story which he heard from his grandparents when he was a child. His grandparents in turn remembered it as the oldest story they could recall. On the other hand, the step-daughter is presented as sweet and innocent. The sequence of events definitely has a touch of genuine Newar customs and manners.

Once upon a time there lived a little girl named Maincha whose mother had died when she was very young. Her father remarried and his wife gave birth to a daughter. Maincha's step-mother was wicked, jealous woman. She never gave the elder girl good food, but she prepared the best possible food for her own daughter. The elder daughter had to attend to all the household duties. She also had to graze the family's nanny-goat, Dhon Cholecha, to whom she was very attached. In spite of all the heavy work and poor food, Maincha was always healthy and happy. Her step-mother became curious as to why Maincha was healthier than her own daughter, whom she fed and pampered so well.

When Maincha finished her daily routine of household jobs, she would take Dhon Cholecha to the jungle for grazing. One day the step-mother told her daughter to follow her half-sister and find out what she did in the grazing land. Maincha used to be very careful with Dhon Cholecha. never letting her out of her sight. The nanny-goat also loved Maincha very much and as soon as they reached a secluded spot, the goat would spit out a good hot meal which she had saved for Maincha. On this day, Maincha was as usual enjoying the hot meal given by the goat when her suspicious half-sister saw her and asked her what she was eating. Maincha asked her half-sister not to tell their mother. and gave her some of her own meal.

When they came home, the jealous half-sister told her mother the whole story of how Dhon Cholecha fed Maincha with delicious food every day. This was, of course, why she was so healthy. The step-mother made a plan to kill the nanny-goat so that Maincha would no longer get any good food. Learning that her beloved goat was to be killed Maincha cried bitterly. Dhon Cholecha couldn't tolerate her friend's grief and bleated in her ear, "Whatever has to happen will happen. Don't worry. Bury my bones in the garden, and there will spring up a big tree which will yield you lots of 'yomari', (a sweet rice-dumpling). (This "yomari" bearing tree may be a kind of fig tree whose fruits are very similar in shape to "yomari").

The step-mother killed the goat and prepared a feast, but Maincha spent all the time crying in her room. Her step-mother kept asking her to come and partake of the feast, but she refused constantly. complaining that she had a headache, stomach ache and so on. When the feast was over, Maincha collected every single bone and buried them in the garden. As Dhon Cholecha- had predicted. a big tree grew which produced "Yomari" sweets.

One day, while Maincha was perched on the top branch enjoying the fruit of the tree, a couple of "lakhe" (demons) passed by and asked her to throw them down some sweets. Kind hearted Maincha did so, but they landed on the ground. The "lakhe" refused to pick up the "yomari" from the ground and asked her to come down from the tree and hand the sweets to them. When she did so, the couple tricked her into going with them. They arrived at the "lakhe's" house. They asked her to prepare "chatamari" ( a very thin round papery bread made of rice) while they bathed in the river. When the innocent Maincha was cooking, a mouse appeared and said, "If you give me a piece of bread, I'll give you a piece of advice." Generous Maincha threw it some bread, but again the mouse repeated the same request. Without any annoyance, she threw it some more bread. The third time Maincha threw it some bread the mouse finally gave her some important advice. It said, "Don't stay long in this house. The people who brought you here are demons. At this very moment they are sharpening their knives to kill you. Before they come, gather up all their treasures of precious stones, gold and silver, and run back home." 

The mouse further advised her to spit on each step of the staircase, as well as putting charcoal on each one. (The exact significance of putting charcoal on each step is not clear, but the process is most dramatic and strongly affected the teller when he heard the story at an early age).

The demons returned anticipating the delicious meal of a young and tender child. They knocked at the door and called out, "Maincha, Maincha!" but every time the spittle in each step called out,'Wait a minute, wait a minute!" When the door still wasn't opened. the impatient demons broke it down and were furious to discover both the girl and their fortune gone.

Maincha arrived home and knocked at the door, but nobody, neither her father or step-mother nor step-sister, was ready to open the door for her. When she called out, "Come and help me I have been carrying this heavy fortune a long distance !". The step-mother eagerly opened the door. Every member of the family was surprised to see more wealth and treasure than they had ever seen before. The step-mother was immediately very curious how Maincha had obtained such a fortune. When Maincha narrated the whole story from beginning to end, the greedy step-mother decided to send her own daughter to wait for the demons at the tree.

As expected, the same "lakhe" couple came by and asked for "yomari" sweets. As she was instructed, the girl let herself be carried away by them. She was also asked to prepare food while the "lakhe" went off to bathe. As she had planned, when the mouse came and asked for bread in return for advice, she gave it a piece of bread. When the mouse again asked a second time, she threw it some crumbs. But when the mouse asked a third time, the girl lost her temper and beat it to death with a red hot poker. Eventually the "lakhe" returned home, and after dining, they all retired to bed. The girl slept between the two demons, who had yet to feast on their true dinner. In the middle of the night the male demon took out his sharp knife and cut a big piece of flesh from the young girl. She cried out in pain and the female demon exclaimed. "How naughty he is, pinching you like that. Come over to my side." But she in turn cut another big piece of flesh from the young girl. Finally the demons ate all the girl's flesh. picked up the bones and brought them back to the "yomari" tree.

The next morning the step-mother was eagerly expecting her daughter to come home with a vast fortune and was happily combing her hair on the balcony. A big crow perched nearby and cawed, "The mother is combing her hair while her daughter is nothing but bones." As she heard this her heart stopped. When she looked out she saw the bones of her daughter beneath the "yomari" tree. Beating her chest she cried bitterly for a long time. Nobody came to console her. not even her husband. who had by now taken Maincha's side. The cruel step-mother no longer had any power and lived in the house like a maid until her death.